I am a 36 year old woman who has been “mobbed at work”, my manager was a friend who has at every turn manipulated and abused her position as my manager. After years of this and plenty of attempts to discuss the issue and try and resolve it, i then complained to HR. I was unable to continue working any longer and i am now on the sick with depression and stress. My name is “MUD” and i have no redeeming qualities. I had started to feel better, however i have just had a massive shock!! People are abusing me online, the comments are EXACTLY the same as they were in work and although they haven’t mentioned my name it is very obvious who this is aimed at. I can’t stop crying, i am absolutely devastated. Can anybody help me? Has anybody got any advice which would enable me to be able to cope.
Would the owner of this post email me if you can? I would like permission to add it to a facebook page I am creating, snap sext account “Resisting Adult Bullies”.
I am currently dealing with a pair of adult bullies as well. SMART adult bullies. They never attack when there are witness’ around. I’ve resorted to purchasing a voice recorder in the hopes that at the very least, it will deter them from bothering me. It will either do its’ job or make matters worse…
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There more ways of torture than hitting or such, music, Roaring of a game, Motercycle s, small engines , how to Handel it and where to go for help.
28 years of marriage, the threats the hartasment, all he keeps saying is you took ten years from me.the things he’s said and doing with the help of win shelter. He told me I just want you out of my life u fn whore,I can’t wait to get rid of u, u aren’t going to be able to stand yourself in a padded room I wKe up with bruises on my thighs,looking like I had gained 10 pounds on each tjigh. So much more of o told they put me away.I’m scared weakening day NY day for what’s being done. Even in the survivors house.I’m just screwed,my fads last words to me. Get rid of him b4 he kills you.I should of were to go or hide,. A friend told me he just wants you do do ten years in a padded room,or kill yourself. Just at a loss he has threatened all friends and relatives not to help. It’s a very large group of people St
Wendy, So sorry to hear that you are in pain over being bullied. Before you record someone, BEWARE. That may not be legal in your country/state/city. If your bullies are smart, combined with punishing and vindictive, you could find yourself looking down the barrel of a LAWSUIT. My bully is an extended family member who claims to be religious but is a nasty, nasty woman with control issues. She’s kind of sick right now because she abused me in front of a number of people and she’s been (in my opinion) spinning and spinning the story ever since to make her look good. Her mistake (and I think she rarely makes one when bullying) is leaving WITNESSES. I was completely faultless in what I did to “earn” her abuse and…get this….everyone agrees I did nothing. So, this is a rare time she has been CAUGHT and she is reeling from that. I stood up for myself in the moment (without yelling, naecalling, or anything else) and I am so proud that I chose to assertively (not agreessively – I’ve heard that the difference between assertive and agreessive is that assertive protects oneself whi9le aggressive over-steps protecting oneself and begins to trample on another’s boundaries). Now all she is left with is trying to convince others how wrong I was and the conflict is threading its way through the witnesses, with her even demanding apologies from the witnesses who have attempted to respond to her propaganda. The only sentiment I have for her is: CAUGHT. So, to all of you who have been wrongfully bullied, take my scoring justice as a karmic score on your behalf. Love and light to you all!